HELPFUL ADVICE ON GIVING
Practical advice from years of teaching and counseling people concerning personal finances, debt, and giving
IF YOU ARE NOT A CHRISTIAN:
Don't worry about
giving to God -- but realize and accept what God wants to give to you
-- complete forgiveness, eternal life, and a brand new start.
FOR ALL CHRISTIANS:
Always give to your
church first. After your faithful church support, then give special
gifts and offerings to other Christian causes that you feel are
important.
IF YOU WANT TO BEGIN TO GIVE TO GOD FIRST:
Whenever you get any
money lay aside the first part in a special place to give to the Lord
as He directs you, OR whenever you put a deposit in your checkbook,
write out a check for the % you want to be giving to the Lord's work,
OR if you track your income and expenses, set up a category for your
church giving and another one for giving to other Christian causes
(then regularly review these accounts and give to the Lord based on the
% or amount(s) you decided on).
IF YOU ARE MARRIED TO A CHRISTIAN BUT ARE STILL NOT IN AGREEMENT ON GIVING TO THE LORD'S WORK:
Have your spouse read
this information and then talk about how to set up a mutually
acceptable plan on how you can more regularly or generously give to the
Lord's work.
IF YOU ARE MARRIED AND YOUR SPOUSE IS NOT A CHRISTIAN:
(1) See if your spouse would be willing to read this material, OR
(2) Identify any money
you know you do have freedom with (read Luke 8:3) and set aside the
first portion of this money to give to the Lord's work, OR
(3) Suggest to your
spouse that you try this faith experiment for 3 months. Begin to give
some money and then look back each Sunday to see if any special
financial things begin to happen.
GIVING OFF THE NET OR GROSS:
Pray and ask God which
you should do. If He prompts you in your heart to give off the gross,
go ahead and do this and trust Him with the results. If giving 10% or
more is a new experience for you, begin with giving off the net amount
for a few months and see what happens. If after a few months you
experience His creative care in your life, begin giving 10% or more off
your gross.
IF YOU ARE A PARENT:
Help your children set
up a place where they can set aside "God's portion" of any money they
receive (i.e. - allowances, work projects, gifts of money, etc..). Have
them give their own church and ministry offerings from this money they
set aside.
HERE'S A FAITH BUILDING EXERCISE TO TRY:
Read 3 scripture
passages on giving (including Malachi 3). Then make it a priority to
give 10% of your income to the Lord's work each time you get paid or
when you put a deposit in your checkbook. After 90 days, evaluate how
God has worked in your life.
By Brian Kluth
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